Well, it’s another cold day in NY. I was going to talk about bulking in more detail, but I’ve decided instead to share with you a different kind of knowledge: how to leave an impression in a girl’s heart.
What do I mean by this? Refer to the pic text message attached.
Yes. And that’s after a year of not seeing this person.
So how did I do it?
First you need to understand something: looks, wealth, and status DON’T MATTER when it comes to getting a girl to fall in love with you.
It’s nice to have these things, of course, so don’t go around saying “Kev says looks, wealth, and status don’t matter.” This is not an excuse to turn yourself into an unemployed slob. On the contrary these things matter a lot—but only because they matter to you.
The pursuit of looks, wealth, and status should come only from a desire found deep within yourself.
Take care of yourself because you want to look your best. Work hard because you know you can make it big. Be the center of attention because only you are awesome enough to do it. If you haven’t found this desire yet, keep searching until you do, and bring it out already! This is your life. Your dream. Your movie. Live it like a goddamn king and don’t let anyone hold you back or tell you otherwise.
So what does all that have to do with getting girls to fall in love with you? Everything. If you believe in yourself, then others start believing in you, too. With women, this is especially true.
When it comes to conversing with women, it’s always the person with the “greater reality” who conquers the other.
Reality is what you want in life and your confidence in getting it. Let girls see your vision, feel your passion. Draw them into it. Trust me, that moment of realness will be more than most women ever experience in their own lives—and that’s what makes it so intoxicating to them.
Being real also means not being afraid to stand up for yourself. If a girl is doing something to piss you off, call her out on her shit! Even if she were an actual queen, she is not YOUR queen. Don’t let her intimidate you. Attractive women have weak-willed men throw themselves at their feet every day. Be different. Be independent. It’s ok, you won’t die. (Trust me.) In fact, she’ll be totally attracted to it.
An independent man will always be more attractive to a girl than a man who makes himself available whenever she wants.
Tease her when you like. Be mysterious when you like. But don’t be scared to let your guard down and let her see the real, authentic you, either. When you pull down the walls of your vanity and ego, you’ll live more in the moment. When you live in the moment, you’re in control. Girls worth any of your time will notice this and won’t be able to get enough of it.
(For more info on this, I highly recommend the TEDTV talk on “The Power of Vulnerability” Brene Brown.)
One last thing–when you do get her to the nitty-gritty physical aspect of it all, make sure to go to town on her (Being fit has its perks. For further inquiries, get yourself lean so you can learn on your own.)
Until next time, as I always tell my buddies before an adventurous night: Go eat pussy and live. (Yes, I’m a crude American. Deal with it!)