It’s another cold and windy day in New York. People are depressed – keeping to themselves, going through the motions at the office, drinking every night in solitude to ease the pain of being lonely… You readers are a different breed. You don’t indulge in that mopey beta shit.
Now, as always, some of you guys are probably thinking “c’mon Kev, nobody’s perfect! Everybody gets a little down sometimes.”
Right on the first part, wrong on the second. Having stuff in your life to work on is part of being human. Feeling sorry for yourself over that stuff isn’t.
What do I mean? Don’t worry, I’ll break it down for you:
Anyone who takes the path of self development is at the TOP 1 PERCENTILE of society, because the vast majority of people will never allow themselves to critically observe certain areas of their lives that need work.
Whether it’s with their jobs, relationships with friends and family, or their dating lives, humans tend to not want to see the “full picture.” Everyone wants to put their best foot forward at all times, which usually means either ignoring their flaws or, when the weather gets shitty and they have a little too much time to themselves, getting depressed over how much work they’d have to do to fix those flaws.
Don’t let yourself fall into the self-doubt trap!
If you accept you have problems, that already puts you ahead of 90% of the pack. If you suck it up and start doing something about it, no matter how long or difficult the road ahead, then you’re part of an elite group of Alphas who decided to stop bitching and start taking control of their lives.
(If at this point you’re thinking “okay, Kev, that’s great–but how will that help me get girls?” then you should take a minute to read my earlier articles. There’s work you need to do first in terms of your priorities. For the rest of you, let’s continue.)
Most guys are pussies when it comes to owning up to their flaws. They think it’ll turn women off. That women will think they’re weak. But nothing could be further from the truth. The secret to receiving text messages such as the one shown from many different woman? Simple: you completely dominate them.
In every aspect of your life, ESPECIALLY your fuck ups, be the dominate male.
Own it. Control it. Make yourself into who you want to be. It’s your life, your reality–if you think something is the coolest thing in the world, she’ll be so blown away by your certainty that she’ll think it’s awesome too. If you’re embarrassed by what a terrible cook your are, or how shitty your job is, or your inability to afford nicer clothes, LAUGH ABOUT IT. And let her see that you’re not planning on staying how you are.
Women find it intriguing when a guy is willing to admit his mistakes and is actively working on improving his weaknesses.
Unlike every other guy she’ll run into, who tries to hide them or make excuses, you’re not embarrassed about being human, and you’re actually doing something to improve yourself. She’ll go crazy for that. (If you’re still doubting yourself, then think of it this way: she should consider herself lucky she met you before you’re too high up in life to notice someone like her.)
Women can’t help it they’re socially conditioned to react to certain behaviors. They’re used to being the ones receiving the attention instead of giving it. That doesn’t mean you should play along–because you’re not the one who has to do any convincing.
Make HER the active member of the relationship. Why? Because you’re the man.
I know it sounds simple, but that’s because it is. You’re in charge of your life–she’s just allowed to tag along for the ride until you decide to move on. Tell them what you want, believe it’s enough, and watch as the magic occurs. Eventually they’ll crumble to your feet: sending you texts, picking up the laundry, cooking dinner, and yes, even giving your balls a Mr. Clean quality lick.
(For anyone wondering about that example, I’m talking about a different girl than the first. One thing is for certain though: they’ve both been thoroughly dominated emotionally,spiritually, and definitely physically. My frame is strong. If a girl doesn’t like that, then I guess she’s allowed to GTFO–get the fuck out.)
I would say the feeling a girl gets from knowing that you don’t need them, but like hanging out with them, is very powerful. She’s amazed that you’re basically choosing to grace her dull, boring life with your awesome presence.
As Drake says in the Motto, “she know even if I’m fucking with her, I don’t really need them”.
Now get out there and watch how quickly girls crumble when faced with your confidence and superior reality!
Until next time: I’m young and I’m getting it–so why the fuck aren’t you??? )